In finding love these days, it seems as though a lot has changed... Going to the bars seems so passe, social media, a.k.a. Face Book and Twitter, to name just a few are taking the forefront in the dating game... The ease in meeting, no pressure conversation, private chat to talk, or public posts and comments to stir interests from others. Throw in youtube, musical interests are known, or moods that can be set. They say that a picture speaks a thousand words, can be inserted to spark a inquiry.. All with lessening the chance of rejection..
The bar scene from days gone by will still always have its place, its just that jawndra has moved down a peg or two, bars are always loud and noisy limiting conversation or getting to know, the meeting is predicated on visual esthetics solely, kind of like Wildcatting in oil and gas, where you can be shot down with ease before ever getting started...
Social media on the other hand provides you with general info about people, compatibility is more readily recognized,for example, facebooks info page, gives you likes in a variety of interests, political, religious, music, movies, books, TV and hobbies and so much more... It kinda cuts to the chase or helps in finding people with similar interests and common ground before you have even said hello. Huge difference that the Bar scene doesn't afford, the ole she looks cute, buy her a drink, start some small talk at the top of your lungs to shout over the band, only to find out she is married with no similar interests...
Granted social media is more impersonal.. But the negative aspects are also lessened, at a bar you crash and burn, the whole bar just watched... Humiliating can be a understatement, where as in a chat or inbox communication, a let down is softened by the one on one...
If you had told me a little over two years ago I would get a date off Facebook, I would have told you, you were crazy. Two years later, I get asked out, yes I get asked out multiple times a week, by a variety of ladies, both in my area and around the country and on occasion some overseas. Yes very attractive, intelligent women ranging in age from late twenties to their mid fifties, asking me out... Ladies that hold all the qualities I want in a long term relationship, yes that's multiple ladies, at times there are way to many.. How does this happen to this 53 year old divorced, father of two.. Well it isn't blind luck, no magic after shave, High Karate I think has lost its appeal.. It is what I say and do on social media, its being myself, not pretending to be someone I am not.. Expressing myself and giving the ladies what they don't find in most men, Romance...
In the coming posts we will cover various issues to meeting and dating women online.. There will be various products to checkout and see which ones are right for you. There will be research sites to help you on your way to finding Ms. Right. I will show you how I built my facebook wall to nearly 2400 friends, of which, 2200 are women and growing daily. And how you can do the same.. There will be info articles posted, trying to give you the most information to help you along..
So now the intro's are through and time to educate, help and enhance your ability to not only meet women online, but the kind of woman you are looking for..
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